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		<title>What if my Client disagrees with the results?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Roberta Hill No one will agree with his or her results completely. Nor should they. The results are only a guide â€“ pieces of the puzzle giving us some clues how people function. No assessment is the be-all and end-all. Most of your clients are going to love this tool and have fun with [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong><font face="Verdana">by Roberta Hill<img border="0" align="right" width="56" src="http://www.wghill.com/images/platinum_square_sm.gif" height="42" /></font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial">No one will agree with his or her results completely. Nor should they. The results are only a guide â€“ pieces of the puzzle giving us some clues how people function. No assessment is the be-all and end-all. Most of your clients are going to love this tool and have fun with it. Others will want to challenge you on every little detail. In our associates teleclass next month, we will talk about how you can respond to these types of questions. Meanwhile here is a little help.</font><font face="Arial"> <img border="0" align="right" width="41" src="http://www.wghill.com/images/magnify.gif" height="65" />You must keep in mind that this is truly a four-fold model based on just two continuums: PACE (slower versus faster and indirect versus direct) and PRIORITY (people versus goal and relationships versus task). Each of these is divided up into four sub sets that are only nuance shades â€“ it is still a four box model. We simply canâ€™t put everyone into four boxes nor will every one agree with every comment in their report.Â </p>
<p>The profiles in one of the major boxes will differ slightly but only nuances. Their qualifiers (descriptors in front of the main square such as thinking Socializer) is really a positional marker. In other words, it says that you are closer to the thinking box that the other two boxes. If you are in one of the inner boxes, it may be an indicator of your ability to adapt to and flex to the other styles. However, this conclusion should only be drawn based on where all of your observers put you.</p>
<p>Both the MBTI and the DiSC actually have four unique aspects or continuums. (I know they wouldnâ€™t describe it this way, but letâ€™s just go with it for now). That means immediately a combination of at least 16 true different descriptions. Both are therefore much more sophisticated but, I assure you, for many of your clients this only confuses them. With the ease of computer generated profiles, both of these tools have created even more differentiation in some cases up to 72 unique profiles. At best the Platinum Rule has 16.</p>
<p>The first thing to do if a client is concerned that the report isnâ€™t<img border="0" align="right" width="150" src="http://www.wghill.com/images/oldwoman.jpg" height="190" /> &#8220;accurate&#8221;. Have them go through it is check off what they do agree with and &#8220;x&#8221; what they donâ€™t. The first autoresponder requests this. When you discuss it with your client, find out if they were thinking of any specific role or situation when they completed the tool that may have influenced how they completed the instrument. Perhaps they completed it on how they wanted to be not their actual behavior. Or, due to other factors, they may not have been focused on reading the questions. Talk about how that may have had an impact.</p>
<p>Finally, ask them to suspend some judgment until they have had the opportunity to get observer feedback. The discussion around the perceptions of observers really is the perception that is important first.<img border="0" align="right" width="56" src="http://www.wghill.com/images/wrench.gif" height="52" /> Then compare the new views to the original profile.</p>
<p>Your value comes in as a coach or trainer in making meaning for the client. It is your job to help the client work through the material. In the debriefing you can help them to interpret the meaning behind the words. You partner with the client to answer the question: so what?</p>
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		<title>Article:  The Theory Behind Psychometric Tools</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2007 10:36:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Assessments 101 Roberta Hill Throughout time, man has wanted to understand how humans function in the world. Assessing personality traits or psychological testing has been around for over 70 years. It has been around earlier, much earlier, when we think about Hypocriteâ€™s work in analyzing the four major body fluids- blood, urine, bile, and phlegm [...]]]></description>
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Roberta Hill</span></p>
<hr /><font size="2" face="Arial">Throughout time, man has wanted to understand how humans function in the world. Assessing personality traits or psychological testing has been around for over 70 years. It has been around earlier, much earlier, when we think about Hypocriteâ€™s work in analyzing the four major body fluids- blood, urine, bile, and phlegm to sort out different types of men. He called those types: Melancholy, Sanguine, Phlegmatic, and Choleric. </font><font size="2" face="Arial">Before World War I most of the deep thinkers in this area had devoted their minds to analyzing how machines might work, since it was seemingly easier to measure them. The first work to address ability testing was F. Parsonsâ€™ â€œChoosing a Vocationâ€ in 1909. It was in 1916 that the first use of a psychological test was used in hiring with for an American police department. After the Great War came a great leap forward in understanding the human machine and itâ€™s creative engine, the mind. The modern phase of psychology and management had begun. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">In the 1920â€™s, theories and hypothesis were beginning to be written up in various scientific journals and the refining of test methodology had started in earnest. In 1921, Carl Jung published his book â€œPsychological Typeâ€, which was translated into English two years later. William Moulton Marston completed another major work in his book â€œEmotions of Normal Peopleâ€ published in1928. In the same year, Thurstone created scales for measuring. Likert developed the first forced choice rating scale in 1932. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">The next major move forward was in the 1950â€™s. Recruitment needs of World War II had accelerated the growth of standardized testing and people were taking these theories and models and developing experiments to try and validate the various hypotheses. Massive studies began and lots of data began to be collected. Ability, aptitude and achievement testing remains a complex and highly technical process that is still only administered by experienced professionals with post secondary education. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">Isabel Meyers, the daughter of Katherine Briggs is credited for introducing the self-report movement at this time. Out of this movement came the best-known assessment tool, the Meyers Briggs Type Indicator. Other assessment tools quickly followed like Walter Clarkâ€™s DiSC Tools in 1952 and the FiroB in 1958. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">In the mid 70â€™s, these tools became â€œpopularizedâ€ and began to show up more frequently in organizations. They were no longer the privy of psychologists and hence there was no guarantee of proper monitoring the applications. In 1975 the Association for Psychological Type and Center for Application of Psychological Type established criteria and began to distribute MBTI. Not only were career counselors using these instruments, but also Human Resource departments were becoming interested in using some of these instruments for development, hiring etc. At the same time, many researchers began to doubt whether psychological testing would in fact be a reliable process for hiring and promoting. This concern is evident in the major court decisions related to employment testing which commenced in 1971. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">Today behavioral and style assessment tools are being widely used by Human Resource professionals; managers and coaches to help individuals and teams function at peak performance. There are a number of well-designed instruments and the magic of computers make the mathematical calculations far superior. Unfortunately poorly designed &#8220;quizzes&#8221; abound and often remain popular despite their potentially limited use. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">We are now on the verge of the next explosion due to the accessibility through technology of online assessments â€“ both those that are good and those that are not. This is creating a whole new set of pressures and challenges in the use of assessments. Everyone who uses assessments needs to ensure that they have the proper training and support in order to deliver their products most effectively. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">The MBTI<sup>R</sup> and The DiSC<sup>R</sup> are the two most common instruments used in organizations. They are based on the work that Carl Jung and William Marston respectively. Jung sought to explain why people differ from one another by identifying fundamental preferences or traits rooted in biology. Marston sought to explain how people adjust to varying environments, by starting with their emotional response to it and relating this response to behavior. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">Probably at least three quarters of the individuals who have taken any sort of assessment, have taken some version or variation of Jung or Marstonâ€™s work. Difficulties arise because they measure different things even though clients may lump them all together. The profiles obtained from each instrument cannot be expected to correlate. They were designed for different purposes and based on different views of human behavior. An important distinction between the two measures is found in their theoretical origins. Both original authors sought to find a systematic way to understand human behavior. </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">There are lots of variations of the two main types of assessment and there are paper and on-line versions available to preview and test before using them. But before offering or administering an assessment you need to consider a few questions. </font></p>
<blockquote><p><font size="2" face="Arial">1. What is the purpose of doing this assessment? </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">2. What does it purport to measure? </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">3. Is this the right timing? </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">4. Will the results take over the agenda and take the focus away from what you want to achieve? </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">5. What is the personâ€™s attitude towards assessments? </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">6. How many has she or he completed in the past and what has been his or her experience? </font></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="2" face="Arial">If you answer these questions comprehensively, it will help you determine if an assessment is the right approach to use and which instrument might best suit your purpose. One last tip. Try it out on yourself. If it feels that it captures some of your personal characteristics it will probably do the same for others. Good luck and happy assessing. </font></p>
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		<title>Free Article about The Platinum Rule by Dr. Alessandra</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2007 10:34:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Platinum Rule by Dr. Tony Alessandra, PhD. An indisputable business fact is that people do business with people they like. It makes sense, therefore, to like and be liked by as many people as possible. The ability to create rapport with a large number of people is a fundamental skill in sales, management, personal [...]]]></description>
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</font><strong><font size="2" face="arial">by Dr. Tony Alessandra, PhD.</font></strong></h2>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">An indisputable business fact is that people do business with people they like. It makes sense, therefore, to like and be liked by as many people as possible. The ability to create rapport with a large number of people is a fundamental skill in sales, management, personal relationships, and everyday life.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">We have all heard of the Golden Rule-and many people aspire to live by it. The Golden Rule is not a panacea. Think about it: &#8220;Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.&#8221; The Golden Rule implies the basic assumption that other people would like to be treated the way that you would like to be treated.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">The alternative to the Golden Rule is much more productive. I call it the Platinum Rule: &#8220;Treat others the way they want to be treated.&#8221; Ah hah! What a difference. The Platinum Rule accommodates the feelings of others. The focus of relationships shifts from &#8220;this is what I want, so I&#8217;ll give everyone the same thing&#8221; to &#8220;let me first understand what they want and then I&#8217;ll give it to them.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Building rapport with people based on the Platinum Rule is smart-People Smart. People Smarts-my system for applying the Platinum Rule-requires some thought and effort, but it is the most insightful, rewarding, and productive way to interact with people. And it is easy to learn.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">A Modern Model For Chemistry</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">The goal of People Smarts is personal chemistry and productive relationships. You do not have to change your personality. You do not have to roll over and submit to others. You simply have to understand what drives people and recognize your options for dealing with them.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">People Smarts divides behavioral preferences into four basic styles: The Director, The Socializer, The Relater, and The Thinker. Everyone possesses the qualities of each style to various degrees and everyone has a dominant style. For the sake of simplicity, this article will focus only on dominant styles.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">As you read the descriptions of Directors, Socializers, Relaters, and Thinkers, see which style fits you best. Then think about people around you-at home, in the office-and determine their styles.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Directors</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">Directors are driven by two governing needs: to control and to achieve. Directors are goal-oriented go-getters who are most comfortable when they are in charge of people and situations. They want to accomplish many things-now-so they focus on no-nonsense approaches to bottom-line results.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">Directors seek expedience and are not afraid to bend the rules. They figure it is easier to beg forgiveness than to ask permission. Directors accept challenges, take authority, and plunge head first into solving problems. They are fast-paced, task-oriented, and work quickly and impressively by themselves, which means they become annoyed with delays.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">Directors are driven and dominating, which can make them stubborn, impatient, and insensitive to others. Directors are so focused that they forget to take the time to smell the roses.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Directors tend to gravitate toward the following positions: the hard driving journalist, the stock-broker, the CEO, the independent consultant, and the drill sergeant!</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Socializers</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">Socializers are friendly, enthusiastic &#8220;party-animals&#8221; who like to be where the action is. They thrive on the admiration, acknowledgment, and compliments that come with being in the lime-light. Socializers just want to have fun. They are more relationship-oriented than task-oriented. Socializers would rather &#8220;shmooze&#8221; with clients over lunch than work in the office.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">The Socializer&#8217;s primary strengths are enthusiasm, charm, persuasiveness, and warmth. They are idea-people and dreamers who excel at getting others excited about their vision. They are eternal optimists with an abundance of charisma. These qualities help them influence people and build alliances to accomplish their goals.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">As wonderful as Socializers may sound, they do have their weaknesses: impatience, an aversion to being alone, and a short attention span. Socializers are risk-takers who base many of their decisions on intuition, which is not inherently bad.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">When given only a little data, however, Socializers often exaggerate or make sweeping generalizations. Socializers are not inclined to verify information; they are more likely to assume someone else will do it.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Socializers tend to gravitate toward the following positions: sales (especially non technical products/services), public relations, advertising, show business, cruise ship social directors, hotel and restaurant personnel and glamorous, high-profile careers.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Thinkers</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">Thinkers are analytical, persistent, systematic people who enjoy problem-solving. Thinkers are detail-oriented, which makes them more concerned with content than style. Thinkers are task-oriented people who enjoy perfecting processes and working toward tangible results.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">They focus on the trees, whereas Directors and Socializers focus on the forest. Thinkers are always in control of their emotions (note the poker-faces of many Jeopardy! contestants) and may become uncomfortable around people who very out-going, e.g., Socializers.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">In the office, Thinkers work at a slow pace, allowing them to double-check their work. They tend to see the serious, complex side of situations, but their intelligence and ability to see different points of view endow them with quick and unique senses of humor.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Thinkers have high expectations of themselves and others, which can make them over-critical. Their tendency toward perfectionism-taken to an extreme-can cause &#8220;paralysis by over-analysis.&#8221; Thinkers are slow and deliberate decision-makers.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">They do research, make comparisons, determine risks, calculate margins of error, and then take action. Thinkers become irritated by surprises and glitches, hence their cautious decision-making. Thinkers are also skeptical, so they like to see promises in writing.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Thinkers&#8217; strengths include an eye for detail and accuracy, dependability, independence, persistence, follow-through, and organization. They are good listeners and ask a lot of questions, however, they run the risk of missing the forest for the trees.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Thinkers tend to gravitate toward the following positions: engineers, statisticians, scientists, doctors, accountants, computer programmers, airline pilots, and tax attorneys.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Relaters</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">Relaters are warm, supportive, and nurturing individuals. They are the most people-oriented of the four styles. Relaters are excellent listeners, devoted friends, and loyal employees. Their relaxed disposition makes them approachable and warm. They develop strong networks of people who are willing to be mutually supportive and reliable. Relaters are excellent team players.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">Relaters are risk-aversive. In fact, Relaters may tolerate unpleasant environments rather than risk change. They like the status quo and become distressed when disruptions are severe.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">When Relaters are faced with change, they need to think it through, plan, and accept it into their world. Relaters-more than the other behavioral types-strive to maintain personal composure, stability, and balance.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">In the office, Relaters are courteous, friendly, and willing to share responsibilities. They are good planners, persistent workers, and good with follow-through. Relaters go along with other seven when they do not agree because they do not want to rock the boat.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Relaters are slow decision-makers because of: 1) their need for security; 2) their need to avoid risk; 3) their desire to include others in the decision-making process.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Relater&#8217;s tend to gravitate toward the following positions: nurse, counselor, psychologist, social worker, teacher, minister, and human resource development. Relaters make exceptionally patient and supportive parents.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Adapting to Others</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">What should you do with this knowledge? First, determine your behavioral style. That known, you now have new insights into your preferences: you might prefer relationships to tasks; perhaps you act slowly rather than quickly; or you may like to tell people what you think or feel rather than keep it to yourself.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">The following guidelines will help you get on the same wavelength with the four behavioral styles.</font></p>
<p></font><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Recognizing And Adapting To Directors</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">At work, Directors often have large power-desks that look busy with lots of projects separated into separate piles. Their walls are adorned with diplomas, awards, and perhaps a large planning calendar.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">The seating arrangement implies a lack of contact guests&#8217; chairs are opposite a big desk and huge leather executive chair. Conversationally, Directors are fast-paced and allow little or no time for small talk.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">How should you treat Directors? They&#8217;re very time-sensitive, so never waste their time. Be organized and get to the point. Give them bottom-line information and options, with probabilities of success, if relevant. Give them written details to read at their leisure.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Directors are goal-oriented, so appeal to their sense of accomplishment. Stroke their egos by supporting their ideas, and acknowledge their power and prestige. Let Directors call the shots. If you disagree, argue with facts, not feelings. In groups, allow them to have their say because they are not the type who will take a back-seat to others.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">With Directors, in general, be efficient and competent.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Recognizing And Adapting To Socializers</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">At work, Socializers&#8217; offices are inviting to visitors. Their walls are covered with symbols of recognition, including photographs with celebrities or high profile executives. Their choice of art is upbeat and stimulating.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">They are outgoing, friendly, and will often come from behind their desks to sit and talk. Conversationally, Socializers focus on themselves. They are enthusiastic and have a penchant for story-telling. It is always obvious that Socializers would rather chat than get down to business.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">How should you treat Socializers? Socializers thrive on personal recognition, so pour it on sincerely. Support their ideas, goals, opinions, and dreams. Try not to argue with their pie-in-the-sky visions; get excited about them.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Socializers are social-butterflies, so be ready to flutter around with them. A strong presence, stimulating and entertaining conversation, jokes, and liveliness will win them over. They are people-oriented, so give them time to socialize. Avoid rushing into tasks.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">With Socializers, in general, be interested in them.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Recognizing And Adapting To Thinkers</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">Thinkers&#8217; desks are structured, organized and neat. Their offices are decorated functionally rather than artistically. Their walls may contain charts, computer print-outs, or other exhibits related to their projects. Thinkers keep their desks between themselves and their guests and their office seating implies formality and non contact. Conversationally, Thinkers want to know and want to tell virtually every facet of a story.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">They speak relatively slowly and deliberately, pausing-without self-consciousness-to search for the right word. Thinkers derive joy from speaking precisely and accurately. Ask a Thinker for the time and you will be told exactly. Ask a Director for the time and you will be told the day of the week. Ask a Socializer for the time and you will be told, &#8220;Three days until the weekend.&#8221;</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">How should you adapt to Thinkers? They are time-disciplined, so be sensitive to their time. They need details, so give them data. They are task-oriented, so don&#8217;t expect to become their friend before working with them. Friendship may develop later, but-unlike Socializers-it is not a prerequisite.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Support Thinkers in their organized, thoughtful approach to problem-solving. Be systematic, logical, well-prepared, and exact with them. Give them time to make decisions and work independently.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">Allow them to talk in detail. In work groups, do not expect Thinkers to be leaders or outspoken contributors, but do rely on them to conduct research, crunch numbers, and perform detailed foot-work for the group. If appropriate, set guidelines and exact deadlines. Thinkers like to be complimented on their brain-power, so recognize their contributions accordingly.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">With Thinkers, in general, be thorough, well-prepared, detail-oriented, business-like, and patient.</font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" color="#000080" face="arial">Recognizing And Adapting To Relaters</font></strong><font size="2" face="arial">At work, Relaters&#8217; desks often hold family pictures and sentimental items. Their walls are decorated with conservative art, serene pictures, family or group photos, and supportive slogans. Their offices are warm and inviting and they prefer to not have a desk between them and their visitors. Conversationally, Relaters are relaxed, slow-paced, and supportive. As listeners, they are attentive and have good eye contact.</font><font size="2" face="arial"><font size="2" face="arial">How should you treat Relaters? They are relationship-oriented, want warm and fuzzy relationships, so take things slow, earn their trust, support their feelings, and show sincere interest. Talk in terms of feelings, not facts, which is the opposite of the strategy for Thinkers. Relaters don&#8217;t want to ruffle feathers.</font></p>
<p></font><font size="2" face="arial">They want to be assured that everyone will approve of them and their decisions. Give them time to solicit co-workers&#8217; opinions. Never back a Relater into a corner. It is far more effective to apply warmth to get this chicken out of its egg than to crack the shell with a hammer.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">With Relaters, in general, be non threatening and sincere.</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="arial">People Smarts and The Platinum Rule are powerful life-skills that will serve you well in all your relationships: business, friends, family, spouse, and children. Improved relationships create infinite possibilities. Sometimes I think of John Lennon&#8217;s song, &#8220;Imagine.&#8221; One of the verses could be, &#8220;Imagine there&#8217;s no conflict, it&#8217;s easy if you try.&#8221;</font></p>
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